Dear Beautiful Friend,

Often when there’s a big decision to make, too many move forward too quickly… which often ends up being a sideways move, or even a move that takes one a few steps backward.

This is not to be judged, as all moves will lead us to a deeper awareness; however, the more in tune we are with the feeling of “ripeness” within, the more pleasant and more efficient our forward motion becomes toward creating a fulfilling life.

The feeling of “ripeness” is without any sense of urgency… without any sense of fear whatsoever. When we allow the universe ample time to give us the information and allow it to settle in us, much as the rising of a loaf of bread or a cake… then we have all the necessary ingredients required to make the best decision in moving forward with our goals.

So, dear friend, the next time you have a big decision to make (or better yet, begin with a few little decisions)… check in with your body, and ask your gut: “Is this the best way for me to proceed forward in creating my most fulfilling life?”  Then see if you experience a feeling of safety within your body. Your tummy will be free of butterflies and  your muscles will feel relaxed.

Next, move up to your heart, and ask: “Is this the best way for me to proceed forward in creating my most fulfilling life?” If it is, you may likely feel a warmth in your heart and very possibly find yourself smiling.

The key to making “ripe” (not “right” decisions as there truly are not “wrong” decisions) is to be patient, and not move until you feel this ripeness in your gut and in your heart… Simply affirm and hold the space of patience of knowing the Universe is doing EVERYTHING to give you all you need to know, and be in the feeling of expectancy that the decision you make will bring you the fulfillment and joy you desire.

And So It Is…

With Big Love and Bright Blessings,

Mikaela Katherine Jones
Author, Columnist,
Delight Frequency Manifestation Teacher

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